30 January 2012, 2:37 am
I am 39 gay woman and my ex partner is 25. we met 2 half yrs ago, she was my childs netball coach. She seemed so nice and we started txing everyday, but she never asked to meet me. I just thought she was nervous and we would get to know each other first, within 3 weeks she had been texing she told me she had her 6yr old autistic cousin living with her and her mom and dad, would i like to tx him and get to know him, i said of course, so for weeks i was talking to her and a little boy. During this time, she had told me she had bad asthma, she had to inject herself in the chest everyday, she told me she had to inject herself everyday in the wrist from an injury, she was also carted of to germany bcuz these hitmen were after her dad and tryed to kill her, she sed she had an ex who beat her all the time, that her mom locked her in the house, that she got beat up so bad from school she was in intensive care. I felt so sorry for her and we began dating, I finally met her after 6 or 7 weeks and id asked to meet this little boy. I found out he didnt even exist and that it was her txing me all along pretending to be this boy :( i found out over time all the things she told me was a lie, but id fallen in love with her, so I stayed with her. in the time ive been with her, ive never met her twin sister, none of her friends at all or any family member, i found out she'd been telling them all i beat her :( which in fact she had the worst temper and would smash things, my llaptops my ipods, phones and she hit me alot, i did retaliate and wud pull her hair to get her off me or i wud push her away, or try and get my things back of her but that was about it. she wud steel my money and while she was hitting me one day she called her mom to get her at the same time sayin come and get me that i was beating her :( i just sat an cryed. she has lied about so much and about everything and i begged her and begged her to stop, and to also tell her friends and family the truth. she had me arrested once saying i hit her but then wen i was arrested she admmited to the police she was lying. Ive loved her so much, once she argued with me and ran of to dubia on holiday with her family and just left me. we broke up 5 mnths ago, and ive been the one to say i love u lets make it work, bcuz for the last 5 mnths shes been saying if i talk to anyone or see anyone she will commit suicide, she already made me believe she had taken one over me and just the other day she said she did it again, ive since found out she lied, but she keeps saying she wants me and shes in love with me and wants to come bk and then each time she will argue with me in a tx saying i talk to other ppl but she wants me to want her forever and love her and noone else or she will kill herself. I dont no wat im doing someone please help me understand whats going on :( all ive wanted to to was love her and be with her. shes so horrible to me and abuses me in txes, but i keep going bk and sayin i do love her and not to do anything, it seems my life is on hold bcuz i dont no wat she wants from me. Im so confused wats happened to me for so long i need some help. their is so much more and many more lies but i would be here all day. plx help... Read More »
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